Tatom Travels: Rockin' Star Ranch

If you ask me and my girls, it’s always a good time for a quick getaway. Finishing the first 3 days of online school unscathed was cause enough for celebration at our house so we packed our bags, loaded up Luna Belle (AKA our car) and hit the road for Rockin’ Star Ranch. A quick trip to Trader Joe’s for some snacks on our way out of town and we were on our way.

Our view as we arrived Friday night. Sigh.

RSR is about half way between Austin and Houston just outside of Brenham. From our doorstep in Lakeway to the Ranch is just over two hours; we made it in time for one of the most breathtaking sunsets I’ve seen. As we pulled down the long road to the ranch, the air felt different, the grass smelled sweet and the sky lit up in colors you dream about. I have a weakness for sunsets and this one was nothing short of spectacular; even the girls squealed “Mom pull over so we can take pictures!” No filter needed.

Ranch owner Darrell Griffith runs this 150 acre piece of paradise and could not be nicer or more welcoming. He invited us to join him and a few other guests in the main house for dinner, but there are on site grills and a luxury outdoor kitchen poolside if you want to bring your own food. Restaurants are an easy 15-20 minutes away.

Brynn and her feathered friend. Everything at Rockin’ Star Ranch is hands on. Even the animals!

After dinner Darrell took us on a quick tour. He’s done so many cool things to the property; reclaimed wood and finish outs, custom designed light fixtures and chandeliers. He has a vision and skill for creating special touches that make the buildings on the property as unique as the land is beautiful. There’s a 7,000 square foot event space for weddings, parties and corporate retreats. (A rehearsal dinner was underway the night we arrived). The beautiful barn is equipped with stalls, a 25-thousand square foot horse arena, the recent additions of a couple of guest rooms and some lounge areas. It’s also available for rental for parties or events with capabilities to hold a real rodeo if you wanted to. Pretty cool! (I joked you could host a second wedding there and say “This ain’t our first rodeo.” Your girl loves a pun). Then we checked out the goats (Brad was my favorite!) the pigs (ornery and noisy but very funny) and Brynn “cuddled” with a chicken.

Brynn feeding Axel!

The animals on the property are part of the fun. Pens are easily accessible so if you need some therapy from a furry friend, you merely have to saunter from your cabin or cottage to where they are. We are city girls no doubt but we loved how gentle and sweet our new friends were. They’ve obviously taken hospitality lessons from Darrell. Our favorites had to be Axel and Daisy, two baby deer the girls bottle fed after our evening tour of the ranch. Axel gets so excited and waves his little hoof while he eats. Precious!

Our darling home for the weekend: The Garden Cottage! Photo: Rockin’ Star Ranch

Time to settle in for the night. We stayed in the Garden Cottage which was set far enough away from the main house, pool and other cabins that you had plenty of privacy but close enough that we were just steps away from being in the mix. Our cottage had a comfy king bed and pull-out trundle so the four of us had plenty of room. A kitchenette with a microwave, fridge and coffee maker was perfect for our snacks and treats. The Wifi works great but there’s no TV: fine by me; we didn’t need it. Darrell built a fire in our private pit out back and I settled onto a bench and gazed at the stars for hours.

Note: The cottages and cabins are spotless but there is no daily housekeeping service. Darrell mentioned a (very) few visitors had issue with this, but I wanted to mention it jut so you’re aware. While it’s nice to have someone make the bed, it’s not a deal breaker for me by any means if that’s not part of plan. This is a vrbo style situation after all, not a hotel. Everything is lovely and clean, Darrell and his staff are wonderful and you are here to enjoy the peace, quiet and scenery. Wild horses (and an unmade bed) couldn’t keep me from coming back!

After a GREAT night’s sleep, the next morning the girls slept in while I took a walk and visited horses Lena and her baby Sleepy and took in more views of the ranch. Green and glorious as far as the eye can see, this isn’t the trip you take to stay busy and in the know, it’s the one you take to get your breath back and realize that a couple of days in God’s country can make you feel that all is right with the world again. Lila and Brynn found me in time to give Axel and Daisy their morning bottle. My babies feeding the babies!

Be sure to bring your swimsuit! Photo: Rockin’ Star Ranch

Our afternoon was spent by the amazing pool. Beautifully landscaped with a rock waterfall, plenty of pool toys and floats are provided and comfy lounge chairs beckon for you to stay a while. I made a charcuterie tray from our Trader Joe’s haul and we snacked, swam and soaked in the sun. We stayed on the relaxation train by following our pool day with a long nap in our cool and comfy cottage.

My Texas, the cattle, the sunset, the hayride. Perfection at Rockin’ Star Ranch. They were THIS CLOSE to us, y’all!

We woke from our nap frisky and refreshed. You certainly don’t have to feel compelled to wear makeup and all that fancy stuff at the ranch: come as you are and enjoy. But we decided we would head into town for Mexican food so showers and outfit selections were underway when Darrell knocked on the door and asked if we were coming on the hayride. He said it was not to be missed. Sold! (Hayride times and availability vary but chances are if it’s a weekend and Darrell is up for it, there’s going to be one. Talk to him for details when you book). 30 minutes later the girls were riding in the cab of the truck and I was back on the trailer perched on a bale of hay alongside a fun group of cheer moms, their daughters and a few sweet couples. As we headed away from the main house and out to the pasture, one of the ranch hands opened a gate and within seconds cow after cow after steer after cow was running beside us, then along side us, then catching up to us mooing and snorting and flapping their ears. It was hilarious and joyful and magical. They were a little stinky but mostly beautiful. We drove a bit with them following closely along then stopped on a gentle hill with the ranch behind us. Again God painted the most exquisite sunset. Darrell handed out feed and the cattle ate right out of our hands. We hopped off the trailer and took it all in. The elk in the distance. The cows mooing right beside us. The big sky wrapped around us. And in that moment as the sun set across my beloved home state with my daughters and these kind strangers and Darrell and all creatures great and small, there was no where else in the world I would have rather been.

Post hayride we headed to dinner on a natural country high: the smiles and laughter were contagious and we chatted about the cows and the hayride and how sweet and special it was. I could see the worry of quarantine and online school had melted away from all of us and we truly just enjoyed each other in the simplest of ways. Not on a first class flight. Not on a big vacation with a sight seeing itinerary. Not with our phones or our Netflix. But on a ranch outside a small Texas town where the main sources of entertainment were critters and creatures and sunsets. After dinner we pulled back into the gate and Lila said “I don’t want to leave tomorrow.” Neither did I.

Butterfly beauty at the ranch.

Another fantastic night’s sleep (y’all, sleeping in the country is just better, I swear) and we were greeted by the morning. I laid down on the gliding front porch bench to listen to the sounds of the ranch while I slowly drank a cup of coffee. Time to wake the girls and pack up. We said goodbye to the animals and found Darrell to thank him for the wonderful stay. Our visit to Rockin’ Star Ranch was one of the most simple yet special trips we have taken together. This busy momma and her busy girls are very much looking forward to going back soon. It is the ultimate in recharging and reconnecting. There’s a bit of magic scattered all over the ranch. And we highly recommend you make the trip!

Rockin’ Star Ranch is located at 8002 Fuelburg Pease Lane. Call them at (800) 778-3196. Book your stay by clicking the link in their Instagram bio @rockinstarranch or go to rockinstarbrenham.com. Tell Darrell I sent you for 20% off your stay!

Tanning Techniques

I always feel better with a little color. If you’ve followed me for a bit you know I love to get a Sunless Body Blend with Laurel at Laurel Corrinne Studio. This patented treatment makes Laurel the artist and your body her canvas. She carefully rolls the customized color on then blends every square inch to perfection. It lasts a good 7-10 days and looks so natural and lovely.

When salons and studios including Laurel’s were temporarily shut down due to Covid, I started to look for alternate ways to get a tan. Admittedly as of late I’ve been in the sun more than usual this year with twice daily walks during quarantine. But I have discovered a few tips and tricks for a great at home tan to keep you glowing behind that face mask.

P50 Body Lotion is a magical exfoliator and is the perfect way to prep your skin for a tan, at home or in the salon.

PREP:

First thing’s first: prep your skin. Drink lots of water (always) but especially in the days leading up to getting or applying a tan; your skin will absorb it more evenly and the hydration will keep areas like knees and elbows from getting orange and streaky.. Exfoliating gloves make it easy to scrub everywhere and get your skin nice and smooth before you apply your at home tanning products. I also recently got the P50 Body Lotion and mitt. This exfoliating miracle potion is perfect for getting skin tan ready. Pay special attention to elbows and knees. It’s also great for targeting cellulite!

Exfoliating gloves available at drug stores and Target. Lotion P50 for the body available at Laurel Corrinne Studio.

This St. Tropez Bronzing Mousses delivers a glowing, golden tan. Mitt is key for application. Photos not to scale, obvi!

ST. TROPEZ BRONZING MOUSSE:

This classic mousse is the perfect natural looking glow. The mitt is key for application. It goes on easy and lasts. This one is best applied during the day before you get dressed and when you really don’t have anywhere to go. Put it on and let it sink in then rinse before bed so it doesn’t get in your sheets. Available in my amazon store and at Ulta.

These little tan towelettes are great for travel, they’re not messy and they leave my skin not only tan but really soft and moisturized.

L’ORÉAL TAN TOWELETTES:

I grabbed a box of these little tan towels on a whim one day at the grocery store. The pastiness of quarantine had set in and I wanted to try something new (to me) that worked fast. Even though you can’t see the “tan” (it rubs on invisibly) these are easy to use, they don’t smell super funky as many tanning products can, and they add extra moisture to my skin. I use the medium shade and rub on before bed, letting everything dry before putting my pj’s on. One towel is enough for your entire body but for extra thorough coverage I use two towels: one on my lower body and one on my upper body. Occasionally I swipe lightly across my face for some added color there. When I mentioned to my friend Katie how much I loved these handy little towels she told me she’s been using them for years. She loves them because the tan they give her fair skin is natural and realistic; no orange streaks. And they don’t stain my sheets! Available at grocery and drug stores and Target as well as my amazon store under “Beauty.”

Tanned AF products are included in the Quaran-tan Kits from The Tan Kitty, Professional grade tanner you can use right in your home!

QUARAN-TAN KIT FROM THE TAN KITTY:

The Tan Kitty is to spray tans what Laurel is to the body blend. Owner Jessica Rosholm is spunky, fun and really, REALLY good at giving you a fantastic spray tan. You can customize your shade, she sprays EVERYWHERE precisely and carefully at her home studio (by appointment) and then she sets it with lavender- scented baby powder before providing specific after care instructions to help you get the most out of your tan. When Covid hit, Jessica pivoted to create at home “Quaran-tan” kits available for pick up.

Stocked with everything you need from gloves to a velvety mitt to different tan solutions of varying shades and intensities, following the instructions is easy and helps you get a fantastic tan right in your own home. I recently used the Tanned AF solution in my kit and applied it with the mitt for a warm, bronzed glow. It’s professional quality that lasts, doesn’t smell funky and doesn’t ruin your sheets. Available at The Tan Kitty, (657) 444-7050..

These little drops are so good to keep your face glowing! Use a few times a week to maintain color.

E.L.F. SUNKISSED BOOSTER DROPS:

These concentrated drops can be used on their own (that’s how I prefer to do it) or add them to your favorite cream, foundation or serum. I apply to clean dry skin before bed time. I use these as a way to maintain color on my face and typically use once or twice a week. Available at Target, grocery and drugstores.

My favorite bronzer duo! Always in my makeup bag.

E.L.F. BRONZER COMBO IN ST. LUCIA

This inexpensive bronzer combo has a peachy side and a bronze side. Combined they give a perfect sun kissed look. I put mine on after my concealer and foundation. It’s a fantastic dupe of the more expensive “Laguna” bronzer duo from NAARS. Available at Target.

Take any good tan to the next level with HydroPeptide Nourishing Glow Body Oil and some Funny Bunny by OPI on fingers and toes.

PRO-TIP: Apply HydroPeptide Nourishing Glow Body Oil to make your tan shimmer and shine. You’ll look like candlelight! And every tan looks better with OPI’s Funny Bunny in fingers and toes. I also love the “Cream” filter on Instagram for snapping a nice, tan selfie or for Insta-stories. Swipe it from my stories and add it to your own effects!

Skin Wins

Okay I’m not saying I’m an expert on skincare, but through trial and error, sampling this and that, and following the advice and suggestions of highly trained professionals, I’m currently using a skincare “cocktail” that’s in my opinion a big win. I’m 46 with combination skin (oily in my T-zone and dry most everywhere else) and the occasional blemish, but for the most part I would say my skin’s in pretty good shape for the shape I’m in, so of course I wanted to share in case you’re interested.

BOTOX

Certainly not necessary but if you want to just look a little fresher, a little more rested, a little more “ahhhh,” then hit the needle. I go to Brooke Nichol at Saving Face for Botox and fillers. She was voted one of the top 100 injectors in the country and I trust her implicitly. She takes an artistic yet conservative approach so the results are truly you, just a little better. Start with a consultation no matter where you go. Ask questions. Look at before and after photos in the office. Talk to friends who do it and whose results you like. Go easy at first; better to not do enough and go back for a touch up than to over do it and spend three months in misery. I stared Botox when I was 31 and the tv station I worked for switched to HD TV. I would go from Lubbock to Dallas to treat the lines across my forehead (one of which I had since 5th grade!) and my 11’s (the lines between my eyebrows) before adding my crows feet a few years ago. Since meeting Brooke a couple of years ago she has gently guided me into fillers for my tear troughs, my smile lines and cheek area. The result is a smooth, lifted look that still allows me to have plenty of expression. She is also known for her “ninja needles;” they’re so tiny you will barely feel a thing. Broke will numb you if necessary and on a personal note, she’s real and funny as hell. Between the tiny needles, her amazing staff and her fantastic disposition, you’ll be in and out before you know it.

Saving Face, 1201 Rio Grande St., Unit 100, Austin, TX, 78701, (512) 765-6123.

LOTION P50 1970

Y’all know I love Laurel Corrinne Studio for the sunless body blend. I have also received dermaplaning and CoolSculpting treatments under her expert hands. Laurel is not just someone I trust professionally, she’s also a friend. So when she told me I had to have the P50 1970 Face Lotion by Biologique Recherche my ears definitely perked up. This vitamin-enriched exfoliating lotion (feels more like a toner in my opinion) purifies, hydrates and tones to visibly improve common skin conditions such as whiteheads, blackheads and symptoms of rosacea. It’s strong and tingly so it’s important to increase your use gradually. Using a cotton pad gently pat it on your chest, neck and face. The first week dilute it with water and use it once a day, the second week use it at full strength once a day and after that use at full strength twice a day. Laurel told me the products I use after applying P50 would work 10 times better and I can certainly attest to that! All my favorite products (which you’ll read about shortly) have been SO much more effective. P50 also gives a brightening and glow like no other. It’s a game changer that will remain in my skin care arsenal. After seeing what it’s done for my face I can’t wait to try the body lotion!

Lotion P50 1970 available at Laurel Corrinne Studio, 1107 S 8th St., Austin, TX, 78704, (512) 799-1729

BEAUTYCOUNTER

It took me a while to try BeautyCounter. My friend Martha Lynn Kale talked to me about it but it was almost a year before I bit the bullet and signed on. I thought clean beauty wouldn’t work, that it would be wimpy and a waste of time. Boy was I wrong. I’ll say it again. I WAS WRONG! Since then I have thoroughly enjoyed many of the products but there are a few that stand out in a league of their own. The Countercontrol Clear Pore Cleanser is a face wash I can’t live without. I didn’t even think a face wash was that big a deal, but a few uses of this with it’s tiny little exfoliating beads and gentle fluffy foam left my skin so clean and so invigorated, I never looked back. Bonus points for the yummy citrus scent. The Countertime Ultra Renewal Eye Cream and Tetrapeptide Supreme Cream are nothing short of luxurious at a fraction of the cost of the eye cream and moisturizer I used to spend a fortune on. Easily the best eye cream I’ve used, it’s ideal for keeping that delicate skin hydrated and bright while reducing the look of fine lines. The Supreme Cream is often compared to La Mer and with good reason. Rich and concentrated, it’s like a mini spa session for my face every time I use it. Without a doubt though, every time someone asks me where to start with BeautyCounter, I always say the Counter+ Overnight Resurfacing Peel and the All Bright Vitamin C Serum or the No. 1 Brightening Facial Oil. The Overnight Resurfacing Peel has me waking to a fresh canvas every morning. I’m amazed at what it can do overnight tightening and virtually re-doing my face. Over time the effects get more and more fantastic. I started with the No. 1 Brightening Oil during the day and I’m still a huge fan of the glow and the fresh scent. Within the last year I switched to the All Bright Serum and have been amazed at the effects of the turmeric and extra vitamin C for a bright, healthy glow that comes on fast. The peel and either the serum or the oil together are SUCH a dynamic duo. Put them on after the P50 Lotion from Laurel? You won’ even believe how good your skin will look and feel!

Shop BeautyCounter here.

H2O

I only thought I drank a lot of water until my friend Houston Ward showed up with the biggest ass water bottle I had ever laid eyes on when she was a guest on the lifestyle show I host. Houston is a fantastic makeup artist and skin care guru. It makes sense that hydrated skin is healthy skin and that makeup would only go on better. Houston’s water intake of 116 ounces a day using this massive bottle nestled in the back of my brain. The I saw my good friends Kati and Emily on Instagram with their big ass bottles. I was sold. And now I’m chugging from 7am to 9pm every day and my skin is already light years ahead of what it was just a few weeks ago!

Big Ass Water Bottle (that’ my name for it, not the official name) linked here.

Contact Houston here. She’ll probably show up with her big ass water bottle and then you’ll want one too.

Tatom Travels: Lakeway Staycation

As the days of quarantine, social distancing and proceeding with caution continue, many of us have the itch to go somewhere—anywhere!—but we want to do so safely. Hopping on a plane isn’t an option for many right now, but hopping in the car is. A destination that is fun and easy to get to is key. Enter Lakeway, Texas: a scenic spot on Lake Travis that is both peaceful with its Hill Country geography and lively with its many amenities. It’s also our hometown so this would be a staycation right in our own backyard! My girls and I each invited a friend, planned our itinerary, threw a bag in the car and hit the road for an easy 8 minute drive to The Oaks at Lakeway Shopping Center where our fun awaited!

The new La Quinta Inn & Suites by Wyndham Lakeway at The Oaks served as our home base. With a chic and modern design and a perfect location that allowed us to easily walk everywhere, this hotel is as cool as it is convenient. We enjoyed a King Suite that was SO spacious! A super comfortable bed, living area with fold out sofa, two huge televisions and bright, fun décor made this a pleasure to call home. My friend Suzanne and I along with my youngest daughter and her friend stayed in the suite while my older daughters and their buddies stayed just down the hall in a standard but plush double queen room. The hotel staff was friendly, fun and accommodating with safety in mind. Masks are required in the lobby and elevators, and superior sanitation practices are in place including cleaning, disinfecting and infectious disease prevention accreditation by the Global Bio-risk Advisory Council. There are also dedicated hygiene and safety leaders at each La Quinta to enforce new sanitation protocols and staff resources. This all brought about great peace of mind as we enjoyed our room, the snack station downstairs and swimming in the pool. Next time I plan to relax by the patio firepit too! Mention my name and book any staycation room (yes standard or suite!) for $99 a night plus tax. You can’t beat that!

The new La Quinta Inn & Suites by Wyndham Lakeway. Cool & convenient to everything at The Oaks Shopping Center!

The La Quinta lobby….I wanna be this girl!

After checking in and getting settled, we headed over to Lashes & Nails Spa for some pretty pampering. I enjoyed the Supreme Pedicure which left my feet feeling soft and smooth. A fresh coat of Funny Bunny polish completed my sandal-ready look. The younger girls enjoyed manicures and pedicures, both French and bright and colorful polish. Lashes & Nails Spa also has full service waxing and lash services and they accept walk ins and appointments. Masks required and sanitizer provided.

Fresh pedicures at Lashes & Nails Spa.

We decided to divide and conquer to get ready for dinner. The older girls headed to Kevin Charles Salon for bubble braids, sassy top knots, beachy waves and curls. KC Salon is a full service salon specializing in award-winning color and cut services as well as high end products in a luxurious, relaxing environment. It’s a light, bright and chic salon that will make you feel pampered and relaxed whether you’re in for a blow out or the works. Additional services include hair extensions, makeup, spa mist and wedding services. Our girls left smiling and happy with styles suited to each of their personalities.

Meanwhile I headed over with the littles to Level 12 Salon where they tamed my naturally curly mane and gave the girls some dreamy curls. In addition to their mobile salon which can bring everything right to you (think girls night or wedding party prep), Level 12 stylists are experts in color, Bayalage, and extensions. The staff here is bubbly and in-the-know about current hair trends and styles; it always feels like I’m chatting with my girlfriends when I visit. We loved our sassy waves and curls and always enjoy the wide variety of products and accessories!

Both Kevin Charles Salon and Level 12 Salon are putting forth best safety measures with all staff wearing masks and requiring guests to wear them as well. Strict sanitation practices are also in place.

Fun braids, top knots, beachy waves and curls from Kevin Charles Salon and Level 12 Salon.

By now we were getting hungry and no better spot than Thai Spice to fit the bill! Serving the Lakeway area for more than 20 years, this is a favorite restaurant for my family, especially my youngest and middle daughters who absolutely love their food! We enjoyed hot and sour soup, dumplings, Chicken Pad Thai, Chicken Fried Rice, Sesame Chicken and their signature Sea Bass along with the seasonal Mango Sticky Rice for dessert. Delicious! Thai Spice is diligent in seating tables at a safe and appropriate social distance inside as well as on their patio. All staff wear masks and guests are required to wear masks when they are not seated at their table. Delivery through food service apps and pick up is also available.

The starters were divine at Thai Spice! And from here the meal just kept getting more delicious!

After dinner we headed over to what is easily my girls’ favorite spot in town: High 5. We are so happy this mecca of fun is back up and running and I could not have been more impressed with their attention to safety and detail while making sure each guest had a fun and relaxing experience. We bowled, we gamed and even tried our hand at axe throwing. Talk about blowing off steam…and I even got a bullseye! The new Top Golf Swing Suite upstairs brings golf, zombie dodgeball, quarterback challenge and baseball pitching (to name a few) right inside! Also upstairs: adults only bowling and a full bar. And not to be missed at High 5: Laser Tag, Hologate Virtual Reality and their vast menu of yummy food and snacks…some of which they delivered to our hotel room later that evening. High 5 requires masks in the arcade area and as you make your way from activity to activity. Once you are seated in your designated area you can remove it. Sanitizer is available all around the facility as well as an advanced sanitizing machine that made my hands feel squeaky clean!

We had the BEST time at High 5! Something for everyone!

Back at La Quinta we changed into pajamas and enjoyed quesadillas, pretzels, chips, queso and guacamole from High 5, which is providing food delivery to the hotel, while making TikTok videos, squealing and giggling, slumber party-style. I finally turned the lights out at about 1:00am. Fun day!

The party kept going back at our suite…so fun!

Saturday morning would have been a great time for an Orangetheory Fitness workout! If I hadn’t been in charge of 6 kiddos, I would have definitely signed up for one of their high energy, socially distanced classes. Check the schedule and get your cardio on! It’s always a good time and a fantastic sweat session!

Once the girls woke up we ambled across the street to Vivel Crepes & Coffee for breakfast. This charming café has some of the best food in town. Sweet and savory crepes, salads, paninis, burgers, desserts and so many delicious specialty coffee drinks. We started with turmeric lattes, café americanos and juice. Breakfast was avocado toast with salmon, the Harvest Omelet, Nutella and Apple Pie Crepes. Vivel is implementing socially distanced dining inside as well as plenty of outdoor seating, café-style at tables surrounding the restaurant. All staff are wearing masks and guests are asked to wear masks when they are not seated and eating.

The Nutella Crepe with strawberries and whipped cream at Vivel. A favorite of my girls for sure!

After catching a few rays and a little pool time after breakfast, we grabbed a quick lunch from Raising Cane’s for a courtyard picnic. For the safety of their guests, Cane’s is operating through their drive through window only. Their chicken is delicious and I cannot get enough of their Cane’s sauce, lemonade or sweet tea!

Next up: safe shopping at Tribeca. This trendy and colorful boutique is stocked with fun tee shirts, dresses, jewelry, casual wear and great denim at a fantastic price point. Masks are required, sanitizer is provided, and after trying on clothing, each item is steamed before it’s returned to the sales floor. I chose a beautiful multi-seasonal top with cutoffs for a casual look, and for dressier occasions I can pair it with pants or a skirt. The girls loved selecting camis, jewelry, and cute graphic tees.

We found so many cute things at Tribeca! Definitely drop by this darling boutique!

We wrapped up the day with a little something sweet at Orange Leaf, another favorite spot for my girls. Orange Leaf has typically been a serve yourself operation, but in keeping with safety and sanitation practices, the staff was so helpful in taking our order and making everything for us. We enjoyed our treats as we walked back to the hotel to pack up and head home.

Birthday Cake fro yo at Orange Leaf Lakeway. Yummy!

If you’re looking for a getaway that’s accessible by car and easy to get to, look no further than Lakeway. In addition to all we did right in The Oaks at Lakeway Shopping Center, a boat ride on the water and a sunset drive through the Hill Country are right outside your door. Everything we did was clean, within walking distance and safe. If you make the trip please let me know! I would love to hear about your adventures in my hometown!

The Oaks at Lakeway, 1900 Ranch Road 620 S, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-423-6564

La Quinta Inn & Suites by Wyndham Lakeway, 1943 Medical Drive, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-263-1300

Lashes & Nails Spa, 2011 Main St., #220, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-377-6041

Kevin Charles Salon, 1510 RM-620 N, Unit 200, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-900-9365

Level 12 Salon, 2009 Main St., Suite 120, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-952-9871

Thai Spice, 2009 Main St., Unit 100, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-263-2221

High 5, 1502 RM-620 N, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-710-2695

Orangetheory Fitness, 1516 Ranch Road 620 S, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-430-1323

Vivel Crepes & Coffee, 2011 Main St., Suite 500, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-953-5334

Raising Cane’s Chicken Fingers, 1600 Ranch Road 620 S, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-263-2955

Tribeca Boutique, 2009 Main St., Unit 150, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-291-2643

Orange Leaf Lakeway, 2011 Main St., Unit B-300, Lakeway, TX 78734, 512-261-5000

Weekend at The Wayback

If you could taste The Wayback, it would be grandma’s homemade buttermilk biscuits with butter and strawberry jam. (More on those later). If you could wear The Wayback, it would be the softest sweater in winter white; the perfect weight to keep you warm but never hot; just right. If The Wayback was a guilty pleasure it would be the most refreshing Saturday afternoon nap, or a crisp, lovely glass of Sauvignon Blanc. Lucky for all of us, The Wayback Cafe & Cottages are all these things and more. It’s the perfect balance of special and comfortable.

The café at The Wayback is a favorite spot of mine. It’s open to cottage guests as well as the public and offers a delicious menu full of varied and inspired dishes.

Tucked right off Bee Cave Road and just 15 minutes west of downtown Austin, it’s easy to get to and easy to find, yet once you park and step onto the property, you feel like you’re nestled deep in the Texas Hill Country. Eight charming cottages, a cabana, a saltwater pool and a café dot the wildflower covered grounds. The vibe is familiar and charming mixed with fresh and brand new.

Saturday morning brunch included shrimp & grits and avocado toast. Perfection!

I stayed in Cottage 8 which houses a queen bed, living area, fireplace, a cute and cozy kitchenette and bathtub/shower combo. I also enjoyed the back porch in the mornings. The cottage was dual-purpose the weekend of my stay: a peaceful home base for part of the wild (but fun!) ACL Music Festival and a girly staycation spot for me and my daughters.

Cottage 8: my home sweet home for the weekend! Photo: The Wayback

All the little details…

Slumber party at The Wayback!

The crown jewel at The Wayback has to be the café. Open to guests as well as the public, it’s small and intimate but bright and airy; when I dine there I always feel like I’m in a scene from Meryl Streep’s perfect house in the movie “It’s Complicated;” everything is light, lovely and casually elegant but with divine attention to detail. And the food is outstanding. I have eaten here many times but over the course of this particular weekend, we enjoyed shrimp and grits, avocado toast, decadent desserts and of course their trademark biscuits. (Do NOT miss the biscuits!) There is also an impressive offering of organic wines and local beers, and the staff is always cheerful, helpful and attentive. (Amanda and Coleman took great care of us this time)! In addition to regular restaurant happenings, check The Wayback’s calendar for weekly fun such as pizza night every Thursday and an increasing rotation of live music. There are also special events like the Argentinian Wine Night I recently attended (see my Instagram highlights under “The Wayback”) which included the most fabulous five course menu complete with wine pairings and the acoustic guitar stylings of Anthony Garcia. We ended the night two-stepping under the stars. Swoon!

As a self proclaimed biscuit expert, I can confidently tell you The Wayback offers some of the best. Don’t miss them! And take some to go while you’re at it.

The Wayback will rise to the top of your list of favorites whether you spend the weekend for a girls trip or romantic staycation, or you drop by for a casual lunch or dinner. (Or a biscuit!)

The entire property can be rented out or just pick a cottage and call it home sweet home for a bit. You’ll be so glad you did!

All the comforts of home! The Wayback is definitely Brynnie approved.

Note: use code AMANDA-ACL for 10% off your stay through December 2019.

 The Wayback Café & Cottages, 9601 FM-2244, Austin, Texas 78733, (512) 520-9590.

The Long & Short of It: My Experience With Hair Extensions

Long curls for a recent fancy night out in Austin. I have loved the versatility of my extensions. They’ve become as important to my outfits as any of my accessories!

I’ve never had super long hair. Maybe when I was really little, it might have gone almost to the middle of my back. But in recent years I could get it to just past my shoulders and it would stop growing. So I kind of gave up. And bought a fake pony tail. (Some of y’all might remember Penny the Pony from the summer before last...)

Probably about 8 years old at the State Fair of Texas with my hair at it one of it’s longer moments in pigtails.

When Tiffany Vogelpohl of The Collective ATX here in Austin contacted me last spring offering natural beaded row extensions, I was super excited to give them a try. After messaging with Tiffany then going into the salon for a consultation, I knew she was an expert and I was in great hands. She had been following me on Instagram and said the extensions would add extra thickness and volume on the sides of my head where she saw the most need, and obviously there would be a great deal of length. I could do one row or two. You know me; I’m a go big or go home kind of girl. We decided on two rows of natural beaded extensions and made an appointment for the night before Mother’s Day.

 That first appointment was the longest. Tiffany selected hair to match my color (spot on, by the way) and texture from her vast supply of real hair which she sources from three companies: Isla, Covet and Mane, and Bohyme. She carefully assessed placement before building a “track” on my scalp, then meticulously sewed in the extensions. The process uses aluminum beads and string that evenly distribute the weight of both your natural hair and the hand tied extensions that are sewn on. It’s not painful, but you can definitely feel something is there; a tightness of you will, that fades over time, usually within a few days. That visit took about 4 hours to get everything selected, placed, installed, slightly trimmed and curled. When I got up from the chair I had the most beautiful cascading blonde locks. Like a mermaid! It was glorious and amazing. Such a transformation. We left the extensions barely touched, with the exception of a slight snip of the ends. It was “booty long” and yes, it was a lot, but Tiffany’s theory of living with the length for a bit made sense to me: better to go long and decide I wanted to cut some off later than cut too much right away and wish I had kept more length.

Extensions installed! First pic of the new locks just after Tiffany put them in last May. I literally felt like a mermaid.

 At first all that hair felt like a separate part of me.   Working out was funny; I used to just throw my hair up into a casual messy bun or pony tail and off I went. Now the pony required two tightly wound hair ties and the messy bun was the size of a head of lettuce and seemed to weigh 20 pounds. After about a week I was used to the weight and the hair felt more like my own with each passing day. The length was a bit long for me, so I made an appointment and went in for a trim. I ended up with chest length hair and it’s been perfect for me. Long but not booty long, and I can still rock the pony tail of my dreams. (My favorite part!)

Yasss, girl! I adore a good high pony!

 Keep in mind such lovely long hair comes with a cost. Prices range from $1300-$2000 for 18-inch hair and $1500-$2500 for 22-inch hair. Longer hair (26 inches!) is available and is priced upon request. Price is based on length, thickness and the number of rows needed to achieve the desired outcome which will be determined during your consultation. Maintenance means you go in for a tightening about every 6 weeks. This includes a shampoo, blowout, a refresh of the extensions and the reinstall. For one row, maintenance runs $175, for the second row it’s $150 and for a mini row (these bridge the gap between shorter layers and longer hair for ultimate blending) it’s $110. Color is priced separately.

While it is an investment, if you are cared for by a knowledgeable professional like Tiffany and you do a few things on your end, (regular, careful brushing, conditioning and braiding or twisting at night to avoid tangles) the hair will last for an average of 6-9 months before you need to replace it. (It’s important to note color blending and placement are what set natural beaded rows apart from the hand tied methods, giving the most natural, realistic look).

Top knot? No problem! I have found my extensions to be quite versatile.

 On a personal note I have one word for my extensions: FUN! I have loved having more hair to play with and style. I can wear it stick straight, or let it dry wild on its own, or use the curling iron for long curls and waves. I love doing ponytails, top knots, I’ve mastered a messy bun on top, and for the first time ever I can do a long braid out of my ball cap and it’s awesome. It’s versatile and glamorous and has been a really cool change of pace for me. I’m thinking now that fall has arrived I will go a little shorter; stay tuned!

A braid and a ball cap: a look I had never been able to achieve until I got my extensions.

 Tiffany herself is a gem: so easy to talk to, so kind, and so smart. Her staff is fun, friendly and professional. I also appreciate that she has been completely willing and happy to work with my longtime hairdresser Sarah Garner who still does my color. Life is about relationships and Tiffany appreciates that. If you’re thinking of going for it and adding some hair extensions into your life, I can wholeheartedly endorse Tiffany at The Collective ATX. And if you do it, send me a pic!

Find Tiffany at The Collective ATX, 830 W 3rd St., Unit 1134, Austin, TX 78701. (512) 712-4999.

Staycation, All I Ever Wanted!

One of the many awesome and Instagram-worthy murals scattered throughout Lamar Union Plaza. This one was very close to our suite at The Guild.

Sometimes a girl’s just gotta get away. Am I right? And when your hometown is the country’s number one girls' trip destination there’s no better place to do it than your own backyard. Enter The Guild at Lamar Union Plaza, home of the original Alamo Drafthouse. This long-time favorite location has undergone a renovation to modernize the area, creating a multi-use center full of fantastic retail, restaurants and cool urban living that’s 90% local and promises something for everyone.

Life at The Guild is hip and fun.

The Guild has a few locations in Austin, each comprised of spacious, stylishly appointed suites which makes it easy to live life like a local while still enjoying hotel amenities such as a gym, pool, concierge service, and free parking. I chose the Lamar Union location because of the endless variety of things to do right outside my doorstep. Once I parked at check-in, I didn’t even think about my car again until it was time to check out. Walking everywhere was safe, easy and convenient and definitely gives guests the chance to plug into the vibes that are so unique to Austin.

Guild at Lamar Union Plaza, 1100 S Lamar Blvd, (512) 623-7480

Best Face Forward

That post facial glow from Kalologie.

Our first stop after check-in was locally and female-owned Kalologie 360 Spa, a day spa meets med spa destination that can tailor each experience to a guest’s needs and preferences whether that be a long luxurious session of pampering or a quick, convenient treatment. I opted for the Classic Facial which left me hydrated and glowing. Follow along on Instagram at @kalologie_austin for ongoing “day of specials” on Botox, facials, and massages. Our group received 30% off treatments for being guests at The Guild, so be sure to inquire about special rates for your own group when you come to town.

Kalologie 360 Spa, 1100 S Lamar Unit 2120, (512) 233-0252

Kicking Ass at Kiki Nass

Clothing, accessories and jewelry at Kiki Nass are nothing less than the bees knees.

Now that we had our glow going, it was time to do some shopping at what I consider to be one of Austin’s best boutiques. Keeping with the locally and female-owned trend, Kiki Nass is full of style, love and a sense of humor that leaves guests feeling empowered inside and out. In addition to fantastic women’s clothing, don’t miss the fun & funky kids section along with awesome accessories and jewelry. Buyer/Curator Joannah Hillebrandt focuses on creating positive energy that translates through the entire shopping experience. Fun fact: you can also catch Jo and her team regularly on Austin lifestyle show Studio512 outlining the latest style trends. The fridge is always stocked with bubbly to enhance your shopping experience and the dynamic ladies of Kiki Nass are helpful and supportive in helping you make your selections. Be sure to follow along at @kikinassaustin for fantastic fashion inspo as well as news about ongoing sales. Our group enjoyed 20% off our purchases so make sure to give them a call about specials that might apply to your group.

Making the Connection

The Truffle Barrata pizza on gluten free crust. Delicious!

After a stop by the room for more bubbles and to freshen up, we headed back down for dinner at The Connection Pizza and Bar which is rapidly becoming one of my favorite hangouts. At any given time you’ll see couples on date night, large groups or families enjoying a meal together. It’s smart, casual yet chic vibe makes The Connection a place for anyone and everyone. Chef Jen Coffman very capably leads the charge and so far I haven’t had anything off the menu I haven’t loved. On this particular night, we enjoyed the Crostini which married the perfect blend of crunchy bread and creamy burrata followed by a classic Caesar salad. Then time for the stars of the show: Truffle Barrata pizza on a delicious gluten free crust and Mushroom Pappardelle, featuring some of the pasta they make fresh in house daily. Party in my mouth! I don’t always order dessert but when our server told us Chef Jen had prepared their peach gelato, that’s all I needed to hear. Believe me when I say you need to experience this at least once in your life. It’s is everything that is delicious and good—summer in a bowl! The Connection features happy hour from 4-7 and reverse happy hour from 9-11 Tuesday through Friday with select $5 apps and 1/2 price pizza. You can also enjoy Wine Down Wednesdays with 1/2 off bottles in addition to happy hour. And for a combination of bougie and delicious, go for the Gold Truffle: truffle pizza with edible 24 karat gold. A little slice of luxury for just $28.

The Connection Pizza & Bar, 1100 S Lamar Blvd Unit 2140, (512) 284-9867

The High Life at The Highball

The calm before the storm at The Highball.

To avoid any post dinner drag, we headed over to The Highball...for a different kind of drag. The ladies of Hot Mess Express captivate audiences on the 4th Friday of every month with their drag show spectacular including super fun music, costumes, makeup and hilarious expressions, gestures and attitude as only they can deliver. My friend Suzanne and I were fully invested and we have the bar tab to prove it. In fact we ended up sitting ON the bar singing (ok screaming) along with every word. (Or the ones we could remember anyway). The Highball is known for just this type of fun expertly put together by Entertainment Director Keith Ruckus. In the line up of shows happening each week, you can catch everything from country acts, to Sinatra-style bands, to burlesque to drag. And that’s not to mention the fun you can have in one of their thematic karaoke rooms perfect for nearly any occasion. This was my first drag show and it will not be my last. A total blast!

The Highball, 1120 S Lamar Blvd, (512) 383-8309

Up and Running with Orangetheory Fitness

Super fun, high energy workout with OTF!

After a great night’s sleep back at our suite, it was time to greet Saturday by sweating out the night before with a session at Orange Theory. One of their fast paced, high energy classes was the perfect way to prepare for all the calories we were planning to take in later at brunch. One of my pals isn’t a fan of running. Not to worry! The expert trainers helped make modifications and she still got a fantastic workout. Be sure to follow along at @OTF_sola for news on special stretching and flexibility classes as well as info on their “no shower happy hour.” Your first OT class is always free, no promo code necessary. Just give them a call to sign up!

Orangetheory Fitness, 1100 S Lamar Blvd, (512) 807-0400

Gimme That Good Hair

A professional blowout is one of life’s great pleasures and Jose Luis Salon and Boutique is one of the best places in town to show your locks some love. The salon offers 10% off group blowouts whether or not you’re on a staycation or girls trip and be sure to check out their Frequent Blowdryer Program: after every 5 blowouts you get one free. Locally owned and boasting more than 30 years in the industry, your hair is in the best of hands with the Jose Luis team. You’ll definitely walk out ready for your close up!

The blowout of my dreams at Jose Luis Salon & Boutique.

Jose Luis Salon & Boutique, 1100 S Lamar Blvd, (512) 474-1146

Brunch So Hard

Candied Bacon Deviled Eggs at TLC. A must order!

Dearly beloved we are gathered here today for one of the most important parts of any getaway: brunch. And TLC Austin does it RIGHT. This family friendly spot includes indoor and outdoor spaces, cornhole, games and outrageously good Texas food...think gulf seafood boil meets fried okra. Yassss! Brunch is served on weekends featuring a bevy of delicious offerings along with Mary’s Bloody Mary’s and Texas-sized Mimosas! Our group dug into the life changing Candied Bacon Deviled Eggs, monstrous breakfast tacos, fried okra, chicken and avocado salad and their signature Nueske’s Bacon Flight which includes a spread of regular, Texas heat and candied bacons. Yummy! All Guild guests get a complimentary bacon flight during their stay. Also not to be missed: happy hour all night on Mondays and Tuesday - Friday from 3-6pm as well as their just-launched $10 lunch menu.

TLC Austin, 1100 S Lamar Blvd Unit 1150, (512) 580-0971

We packed so much into just 24 hours during our Guild staycation and the really cool thing is I could go back and stay again and have a completely different experience at Lamar Union Plaza. Spots we missed this time but will definitely be back for include Shake Shack, Coated, Alamo Drafthouse, Soto and Mandala. Be sure to check with all retail outlets and restaurants for specials that could be enjoyed by your group during your stay. And don’t miss the many Instagram-worthy murals scattered throughout the property so we can all follow along and enjoy your trip!

Summer Pick Me Ups

Some things just scream summer. A day at the lake. A great tan. Your favorite flip flops. Staying up late and sleeping in. In the spirit of this bright and happy season, I’ve rounded up a list of some of my favorite summer picks. Enjoy!

It’s Not On The Rocks But It’s On The Go

Yo, yo, yo! It’s a margarita to go! Taco Ranch…you’re genius.

Austin favorite P. Terry’s is known for their delicious burgers, fries and shakes but their venture into the land of tacos is rapidly making a name for itself as well. The menu at Taco Ranch includes everything from breakfast tacos to nachos to churro brownies, but it’s their frozen margarita that will have you pumping the breaks. Literally. Obviously you can order one inside but this lovely libation is also available in the DRIVE THRU! Strawberry is always the flavor of the day and it’s made with wine instead of tequila which in my opinion makes it the perfect balance of refreshing and sweet. This is a margarita that’s right up my alley. There’s a limit of two per car: two people, each with a valid ID must be present in said vehicle. The Taco Ranch folks fill your cup, pop on a lid and put a sticker over the opening where your straw will eventually go. But they don’t give you one...you gotta wait until you’re home safe and sound to start sipping. But who cares? I can live with that because it’s a delicious frozen margarita TO GO, people! And I’ll definitely drink to that!

Taco Ranch has two Austin locations: 5033 W Highway 290 & 517 W Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd.

 Blonde Ambition

There’s just no blonde like a Sarah Garner blonde.

 Real talk: I’m a brunette ( I think ) but it’s been decades since I’ve seen my real hair color. And I’m in the perfect hair relationship to help me keep it that way. If you’re looking to go lighter, look no further than Sarah Garner. I’ve been seeing Sarah for my cut and color since I moved to Austin more than 5 years ago and I call her “The Blonde Expert.” She is as kind and lovely as she is capable and talented when it comes to helping you achieve your hair dreams. She truly listens and works with you. Over the years she has helped me go shorter, fluffier, longer, sleeker and her coloring skills are divine. Currently I’m a beige-blonde with all over highlights. She also does a base bump (yassss—ya girl love a bump!) which keeps the contrast between my highlighted hair and my natural hair less drastic. A lovely blending effect, if you will. And when I recently got extensions Sarah didn’t bat an eye. She is calm, cool and collected and she knows all my secrets...and keeps them! A true gem!

 Sarah Garner works her magic at Siva Salon located at 1114 W 5th St. Call (512) 922-2598 to book.

 Nailing It

My signature summer color for fingers and toes: Funny Bunny by OPI.

 If you’ve followed me for a while you know I have favorite nail colors based on the season. When the temperatures heat up, I love to lighten things up with OPI Funny Bunny. Technically it’s the palest of pinks but reads nearly white. It’s the perfect accompaniment to a nice summer tan and it always looks fresh and “with it.” I’ve done gel on my fingers and toes for years and I still get compliments and questions about the color. Snag your own bottle at the beauty supply or drug store, or it’s available at most nail salons, just call and ask.

 Gloss Love

My very favorite lip gloss: Bare Shimmer by BeautyCounter. Getcha some!

 Long ago in a land far away called Plano, 6th grade Mandy and her mom were at the mall and happened upon a lovely little lip gloss called “Nude” by Clinique. Mom bought me 2 tubes and I absolutely loved it. When I finished those we went back for more only to be told it would be discontinued. If memory serves they had 9 tubes left and my mom got them all for me. I wore it as long as I could, scraping down to the very last bit in each tube sometimes pressing and digging so hard I would break the wand. Then I went through a series of unfortunate lip colors...perhaps too brown, too hot pink, too dark. Finally I came back to simple nude again. Damn the trends. No matter what everyone else is wearing or what the “what’s hot” lists say, I look best in a pinky/peachy/pale nude and that’s just my truth. So I moved on to Chanel Glossimer in the palest of pinks; in fact it was almost clear. (The name escapes me). I loved it. And then it was discontinued. Cut to April of 2019. My friend and BeautyCounter mentor Martha Lynn Kale sends me a package of goodies including the BC lip gloss in Bare Shimmer. I put this on my pucker and I swear to you the angels sang! It’s like my favorite 6th grade Clinique and my favorite grown up Chanel got married and had a lip gloss baby and let me tell you SHE IS PERFECT. Ladies this is it. This is the shade, the universal shade made to make every woman’s mouth look it’s best. I am more in love with this lip gloss than is appropriate to speak of but let me just say, I believe it is one of the keys to looking younger. It is dewy, it is flattering, it is perfect. It softens everything about your whole look. Try it. You’ll love it. And if you don’t—and I mean this in the nicest way—you’re crazy and gimme it.

 Order Bare Shimmer Lip Gloss and other BeautyCounter products by heading to the link in my Instagram bio.

 Triple Filtered Diamond Water

Oh how she sparkles, oh how she shines…one of my almost daily doses of Starbies (Triple Filtered Diamond) Water. It’s not like normal water. It’s waaaaaay better. Yummy!

 So this is kind of a joke and kind of real freaking serious. I stumbled on the Starbuck’s water while following one of my very favorite bloggers/instagrammers/influencers Beth Chappo. Now y’all know my daily Starbies drink is what some might call....involved. (Those who mock simply do not understand). So when Beth raved about their water I was like a) I don’t need another beverage from Starbuck’s ruling my life and b) it’s water. How special can it be? Then I ordered one. Starbucks puts their water through a triple filtering process and the result is simply magical. You can see my on camera reaction by watching my Instagram story highlights but the best way I can describe it is this: it’s so crisp and so clean and so perfect, it’s like drinking a diamond. Absolutely delicious. As in the best water to ever grace your mouth. So I’ve called it Triple Filtered Diamond Water or Diamond Water ever since. I get one regularly along with my coffee drink. The barista at my Starbie’s said it’s always free and they never mind you coming in for one, even if that’s all you get. So bottoms up on the Starbies H2O! And let me know what you think of it.

 Triple Filtered Diamond Water is available at every Starbucks throughout the land. Just don’t call it Diamond Water when you order it...that’s our thing, not theirs ;) Unless we want to start a campaign….

I would love to know the things big and small that you’ve been enjoying those summer. Be sure to comment below!

Big Shoes, Bold Moves

I’m often asked which shoes are my favorite. The truth is, I love my shoes sooooo much it’s impossible to pick but if I had to bring my strongest shoe game…my Beyoncé, my Oprah, my LeBron James, my Yoda, my Dom Perignon, my Jordan Speith, my Walter Cronkite, my Warren Buffett, my Jimmy Fallon, my Marilyn Monroe, my SURE THING…it’s these mamas right here.

They are my most outrageous, ride the unicorn, had-to-have, insane in the membrane, swore if I got these I would never want for more, still hyperventilate-when-I-open-the-box-because-I-can’t-believe-they-are-mine shoes. They are completely and perfectly ridiculous, commanding, fierce, this-ain’t-my-first-rodeo, drink-you-under-the-table and tear up the dance floor shoes, signed by Mr. Louboutin himself. (Swoon!) They reign supreme over all my others; at the top of the closet on a red velvet throne complete with a crown, a scepter and their own flute of champagne. I don’t wear them often and I never, ever thought I would wear them to work. Because they kind of look like Vegas on my feet. But then I thought…what if I get hit by a bus tomorrow and I never got to wear them again?? So here they are on an average Wednesday lighting up my life.

My point friends (and I do have one even though sometimes you gotta dig deep) is that life is short. So order pizza and serve it on fine China! Wear sequins to soccer practice! Throw those diamonds on a head to the grocery store! Do what you want to do today…whether it’s as little as wearing your bestest shoes, or as big as taking that chance you’ve been waiting to take. Ask her out! Call him! Send the resume! Make an offer! Schedule the appointment! Give the hug! Extend the apology! Whatever it is…tomorrow isn’t guaranteed. I’m that little voice whispering in your ear, “go for it!” Some of the very best things in life happen when you zig instead of zag, throw caution to the wind and jump right in. And in the wise words of the ravishing and perfect Marilyn Monroe—”Ever notice how what the hell is always the right answer?” Exercise your “what the hell” muscles and do something unexpected today. And please let me know how it goes!

Driver's Seat Style

As y’all know I love fashion. Combining clothes and accessories for me is a true expression of creativity. For important events I plan what I will wear in advance but on the day to day, I typically let my mood dictate my ensemble. It was one morning on the way to work in 2015 that I decided to start documenting a part of my #ootd along with an accessory (typically a statement ring, bracelet or sometimes a clutch) in a photograph and posting it to Instagram. I spend a LOT of time in my car, driving myself and my girls to and from anywhere and everywhere. As a single mom and the head of our household, I am in the driver’s seat literally and figuratively. As I studied my outfit that day which was comprised of sequins, feathers and denim (typical) I looked down and thought “Here you are in the driver’s seat and you’re trying to give people a peek at your style…” and #driversseatstyle was born.

Sometimes my lunch makes a #driversseatstyle appearance. Case in point: this yummy Acai bowl from Aloha in Lakeway.

That first post wasn’t my best work with the camera. I wish I had taken a wider shot so it would have been easier for people looking at the pic to figure out what was going on. But over time I got the hang of it and the pictures were a good chance to showcase my own personal style choices as well as clothing and accessories loaned to me by local boutiques. Gradually I added in props: candy at Halloween, tickets to Dell Match Play, and more than once my “Amanda special” drink from Starbuck’s. I also love puns and writing and being tricky with innuendo and words so it’s fun to come up with (what I hope are) clever captions and hashtags. Oh the power of words.

The “Amanda Special” from Starbuck’s coordinated perfectly with the accessories of the day for this #driversseatstyle post.

Driver’s seat style is also a fun way to show a mix of high-low which in my opinion is the most fun way to create an outfit. There is no reason fashion and certainly the inspiration for fashion cannot and should not be accessible to everyone. I love combining a Chanel clutch with a $10 skirt from Le Garage Sale. I love a stack of bracelets and a statement ring one day and a simple pair of ripped jeans and a tee the next. And I love the way it looks from my point of view in the driver’s seat. No matter what stray French fries, dry cleaning or library books are lurking in my back seat, typically my #driversseatstyle post is a semi-organized and aesthetically pleasing pic of what’s up fashion-wise for the day. Except when the occasional phone charger cord makes a cameo.

You know ya girl loves some ripped jeans! These are from H&M. And pardon the phone charger…it wanted in on the #driversseatstyle action.

Another part of these posts is that now my followers have been inspired to show me their #driversseatstyle and I absolutely LOVE their interpretations! I have some of the funniest, wittiest and coolest followers around and to see your take on this little “thing” I do not only flatters me more than you will ever know, it inspires me as well. Keep sending them in! And whether you’re wearing spandex or couture, may your time in the driver’s seat be purposeful, stylish and fun.

Sometimes keeping it simple is just as good as a lot of bells and whistles. In this case a cute skirt and a fresh manicure were all I needed to show my #driversseatstyle.

Please Don't Lick My Face

Okay so I have been pretty open with y’all about my re-entry into the dating world after 20 years of doing nothing of the sort. It is completely like starting over again. But way scarier. So I make it my policy not to tell anyone’s name or show anyone’s face. I think it’s a fair way to go about it and it’s how I plan to continue to conduct my personal business going forward because some things just need to stay private, especially when another person is involved.

But that doesn’t mean I can’t tell y’all about some of the weird crap that happens from time to time, which not only serves as content for this blog (I mean what’s better than real life, right?) but it’s also a way to perhaps advise men on what NOT to do when attracted to, interested in or pursuing a woman.

Case in point: The Face Licker

This story takes place many months ago. He was athletic , accomplished, smart, successful and ambitious. Quite a list of adjectives, but all of them are fair. We had known each other for a while, but never in a romantic capacity. After staying in touch and then communicating a bit more, we decided it would be fun to get together and catch up over drinks and dinner. It wasn’t called a date, but I could feel what was going on. Too bad you can’t tell what kind of kisser someone is based on their fitness level, resume or accolades. But honey, I was about to learn.

By the time our not-calling-it-a-date-but-it-was-totally-a-date rolled around, I had tanned, plucked, sucked, lasered, round brushed and outfitted myself into the ultimate level of feminine fluffy-ness. With wine roadie in hand, I stepped into my Uber aesthetically more prepared than I had been for my freaking senior prom. That poor driver got to hear EVERY SINGLE ONE of my worries and anxieties about the evening ahead on the 48 minute trip. He was very sweet and built my confidence up a great deal. By the time we arrived at my destination I stepped out of the car feeling ready to be witty and charming and have a good time.

We met at a trendy bar in North Austin for cocktails. He looked good. I felt cute. The conversation flowed easily and catching up was fun. After a while we decided to head to a nearby restaurant for dinner. More chatting and laughing. We were clearly both having a good time. He asked for the check and I excused myself to the ladies room to powder my nose and make sure nothing weird was stuck in my teeth. I wasn’t prepping for a full blown make out session or anything, but I felt like a goodnight kiss was coming. We had known each other for a long time, the mood felt right and all signals pointed to a smooch.

We stepped outside talking about where we might go next, stopping at some nearby benches. It was a little awkward but mostly very sweet and in the middle of a sentence, a kiss just came along naturally. Not too much, just right. Yay! It was normal! It was good! And then it wasn’t. I’m not sure where things changed…but it happened in a blink. Maybe he felt like the first kiss meant the gates had been opened—I’m not sure—but the next thing I knew, his hands were in my hair and his very long, very wet, very…strong? tongue was sliding up the right side of my face from my jawline to my temple. Somewhere in between me thinking “what in the actual eff is happening here?” and “no, no, no, no absolutely not!” it also crossed my mind that my makeup which I had worked really hard on and looked really good that night was now being LICKED OFF OF MY FACE NOT BY AN ANIMAL BUT BY AN ACTUAL HUMAN BEING. I made a quick plea for the earth to open up and swallow me, erasing me from this situation. No such luck. I was going to have to get to the other side of this lick and look this person in the face and say hold up buddy, I gotta go. Shit. A breathless moment (that seemed like an eternity) passed and he stopped to look at me for a quick second then his mouth opened, he started tilting my head and assumed the licking position AGAIN. Oh HELL naw! I grabbed his wrists which were attached to his hands which were holding my head and said “Slow down, take it easy” Literally one of the most awkward moments of my life. He kind of laughed and went back to a normal kiss but you know what they say…too little too late. And far too slobbery. If this was the pregame, no way was I sticking around for the main event. I might drown. I fumbled around for my phone to call an Uber while trying to say I had a great time and discreetly wipe the entire right side of my face. My mascara was probably running. The car arrived and he tucked me inside and said goodnight with a quick kiss on the cheek. The car door shut and I let out a sigh of relief that was probably heard round the world. If you felt the earth shake one night last spring for some unexplainable reason, let me assure you it was me in the back seat of that Uber driving home and getting the heebie effing jeebies after nearly having my face end up in a man’s mouth. Dear lord the trauma of it all is so real as I sit here writing this. (Shivers uncontrollably).

I can’t claim to speak for everyone but I think it’s pretty safe to say no woman wants her face licked. Like ever. So guys, if you’re thinking of getting wet and wild with some new mouth to mouth techniques, think again. Keep it simple. Keep it sweet. Keep it sexy. But DO NOT make it sloppy. I’m happy to report this incident did not keep me from going on further dates, though it very well could have. And I assure you while I keep on ticking, I will NOT take another licking. So gentlemen, act accordingly.

I would love to hear your dating disasters, facelicking and all! What’s the weirdest moment you’ve ever encountered on a date?

Le Garage Sale: A Shopper's Dream

It was the month we moved to Austin in 2014 and I had my first lash appointment with who I now consider to be one of my dearest confidantes and friends, Emily. As I laid on the table with my eyes closed and she lashed me up, we chatted about “get to know you” things with most of the questions coming from me: what were her favorite places to eat? Where were some fun places I could take the girls? Where did she like to shop? She told me I had to make plans to go to Le Garage Sale. She said it was a twice-yearly shopper’s paradise...a giant collection of local shops and boutiques under one roof and the prices were AMAZING. I listened intently as she described some of the great things she had gotten while shopping there. I filed it away in the back of my head and made plans to go. It sounded like fun, I love clothes and I love a good deal. Yes, this would be something I would enjoy.

More Le Garage deals: this pleated faux leather skirt for $15 and these strappy cobalt heels for $19.

Cut to 5 years later and I am about to embark on my 10th Le Garage Sale and to say I love this event might be an understatement. I am obsessed with it. I live for it. I build my calendar around it. I just changed out of town plans because there was a conflict with Le Garage. One year I shopped Saturday at Le Garage, left mid-day to drive to Fort Worth for a friend’s 40th birthday, then got up early and was back in time when the doors opened Sunday. Last year when Campbell was in competitive cheerleading we traveled to numerous mandatory out of town competitions. (Y’all might remember my insta-stories). Typically we were whipped and would spend the night and return home the following day. But when we found out she was competing the weekend of last January’s Le Garage Sale (no!!!!) I knew how it would play out. She would compete. We would get through awards. And we would haul ass home Saturday night no matter how late so I could make the sale Sunday. That’s exactly what happened and of course I scored fabulous deals that made every bit of it more than worth it.

This lace skirt was $30 a Le Garage and has taken me from the office to a cocktail party. The fun little black fringey shoes were $19.

Over the years I have enjoyed Le Garage Sale with several other shopping friends who “get it:” it’s the thrill of the hunt that makes it so fun. If you don’t like to dig a little, this might not be for you. I encourage everyone to try it as least once, but if you are a shop-off-the-mannequin or I-don’t-do-crowds kind of person, give it careful thought. If you think you might be up for the challenge even just a little bit, let me tell you why you need to give it a go.

Aquazurra shoes that retailed for $975. I got them for $97.50 at Le Garage!

The boutiques here are some of the area’s best and most unique and they are selling things at a fraction of what you would pay in store. Every rack is a sale rack. And the stuff is GOOD. I got $950 Alice and Olivia beaded sweatpants for $70. I got $975 studded suede Aquazurra stilettos for $97.50. And never mind the countless items I have scored for $10, $15 and $20. Le Garage Sale has been the backbone of my wardrobe for years. Plus it’s so much FUN! The energy is amazing, the selection is massive and there is even a DJ and rolling bar cart to keep you sipping and shopping the day away. Plus there are giveaways for gift cards and cool prizes throughout the event. I don’t want to brag, but I feel like my friends and I have gotten this down to a science and it’s only fair I share our Le Garage tips with you. So read on and take note!

TICKETS & PARKING:

You can get general admission for $10 but I highly recommend splurging for the $20 VIP entry which gets you in an hour earlier on Saturday morning. Plus the first 500 people through the door get a free bag to carry all your loot (you’re gonna need it!) and don’t forget to enter your name for drawings on your way in! Parking at Palmer Events Center is $8 and cash is preferred.

WHAT TO WEAR:

Some vendors have dressing rooms (basically pop up tents) but most don’t. Only once have I left my bag with a vendor and taken an item into the bathroom to try it on. That’s kind of a pain. Your best bet is to wear something tight fitting that allows you to easily slip things on and off. I always wear lulu leggings and a tank with an oversized sweater or sweatshirt that I can take on and off when I want to try things on. Don’t feel self conscious; it’s a free for all and everyone is thinking about the deal they’re trying to score, not watching you change.

WHAT TO BRING:

Extra bags! Some places offer bags but I find bringing a couple of oversized sturdy, recyclable totes is a good idea. I always pack them full and when they can’t hold one more thing, I scurry out to the car, unload, then bring my empty bags back in to fill them up once again. Most vendors take cards and cash, but sometimes it’s easier to negotiate a deal with green money in hand, especially near the end of the day Sunday when merchants are looking to move their inventory rather than packing it all back up. ATM’s are on sight just in case.

WHAT’S THERE:

Of course there are women’s clothes, shoes and jewelry galore but there are also tons of gift items, some home decor, stuff for guys and kids and other cool trinkets and treasures. It is packed with great stuff!!! Don’t forget there is a stationary bar as well as roving bar carts along with light fare like sandwiches and salads. Vendor maps are provided at the door.

STRATEGY:

This is different for different shoppers. I like to hit a few favorite spots that are always at the front then go up and down every aisle. My friend Deidra makes a beeline for the back for her favorite spot that sells everything at 90 percent off, then she roams the aisles. No matter how our group does the first half of the day, we always agree to break for lunch around 1:30 and head across Barton Springs to El Alma for delicious cocktails and food. We talk and laugh and discuss what we already bought then we head back to buy more. We always laugh at how our choices in shopping and our critique of each other is more uninhibited after a few margaritas! Le Garage is a blast and not to be missed. Hope to see you there!

Le Garage Sale is Saturday January 26th (10:00am for VIP entry and 11:00am for general admission until 6:00pm) and Sunday, January 27th (11:00am - 5:00pm) at Palmer Events Center, 900 Barton Springs Road.

Admission is $20 for VIP entry and $10 for general admission at 11:00am. For tickets and information head to legaragesale.net.

And if you miss this month’s event, it will all happen again in August!

One of my life mottos? Tacos and Champagne of course! Lucky they had it on a tee shirt at Le Garage for just $20.

The Sweat Life

Sweating is not something I typically enjoy. It makes me feel icky, it ruins my makeup, it leaves me stinky and wilted. So when CYL Sauna Studio opened this past summer and invited me to come sweat it out infrared-style, I was admittedly less than enthused. But because I had heard about the great benefits and the gorgeous celebrities who swear by it (Cindy Crawford, Jennifer Aniston and Marisa Tomei to name a few) I decided to give it a go.

First impressions mean a lot. There is EASY parking at The Sweat House (Hallelujah!) which means getting in for a session is stress free. The studio is immaculate: all white, bright and airy. Guests can choose a standard sweat session for 30 minutes or extend their time to 40 minutes. An attendant will guide you back to your private room and show you how to get inside your sauna pod which is basically a padded table covered in white towels with a sliding top that’s easy to crawl under and adjust. Again, I cannot stress to you how CLEAN everything is. When I think sweat I think smelly, dirty and germy. The Sweat House is the complete opposite; every time I go in for an appointment I feel like the place is brand new and I am the first one to visit. You can choose the heat level you want (I started at a 5 with my first sweat, now I typically sweat at a 7). The room is dark with soothing music in the background, perfect for relaxing. Doors can be locked for privacy, but don’t do it! Here’s why: at the half way point of your session, an attendant will place a cold, scented towel on your forehead and it is HEAVEN. It’s such a treat and it gives me the push I need to finish the sweat. #dontlockthedoor #dontdenythetowel

A good sweat made better by the heavenly “half way” towel.

So why sweat? And why infrared heat? Sweating is the natural way our bodies can eliminate toxins and stay healthy. Using infrared heat is the deepest and most beneficial way to sweat all the junk out; it’s 7 times more detoxifying than a traditional sauna. Benefits include pain relief, a reduction in blood pressure, improved skin and circulation, detoxification and help with weight loss. One 30 minute sweat can burn between 300 and 600 calories! I find a session allows me to turn my racing mind off for that 30 minute block of time, so I’m not only rejuvenated physically but mentally as well.

Sweat it out!

Ideally, I would sweat three days a week. It makes a huge difference in the way I feel over all. But even one sweat a week is beneficial. In the 5 months I’ve been going to The Sweat House, I have noticed marked improvements in several areas of my life and health.

Your own private room and sauna pod await.

SKIN : My skin literally glows. Yes, I do take care of my skin at home with different products and a regular routine. But infrared heat is proven to help with problem acne and there is nothing better than ridding your skin of impurities than from the inside out. On a personal note, I swear it’s anti-aging!

SLEEP: I have been on prescription sleep meds for years. Since I introduced sweating into my routine (along with dietary changes) I have gotten off my sleep meds and have found it far easier to relax at night. Not to mention the way it makes my muscles feel. After a sweat I feel like I had a gentle massage; so relaxed and such a release of tension. Walking out of the studio I feel light as a feather.

MENTAL HEALTH: Face it. We could all stand to unplug and unwind a little bit more. The dark, quiet half hour I spend at The Sweat House leaves me feeling calmer and less mentally cluttered. In my opinion you just can’t put a price on that. I will never be able to create more hours in a day, but by using a small segment of time in a way that benefits my body and my mind in such a soothing way, I come out with perspective and a sense of peace. It’s not just a sweat, it’s a mini meditation session!

Your first sweat is $30; from there you can purchase packages and keep an eye out for specials. Gift cards are also available. CYL Sauna Studio-The Sweat House is located at 215 S Lamar, Unit B, (512) 494-4800.

Fun In Fredericksburg

We may have to wait a little longer in the Central Texas for it to actually feel like fall, but we can soak in all the seasonal vibes and definitely find an autumnal mood by taking a jaunt to Fredericksburg.  When the calendar switched to October so did my frame of mind: it was time for a fun little getaway to visit our darling neighbors in the Hill Country. Pack your bag #mrsmellsamazing, we’re headed to Fredericksburg!

Cheers to the red blend at 4.0 Cellars!

We chose a Sunday to Tuesday stay...fewer crowds and a slower pace sounded perfect. By now you know there is no shortage of wineries in and around the area.  The drive along 290 into Fredericksburg provides ample opportunities to stop.  Fall is my official red wine drinking season and since #mrsmellsamazing was finally willing to join me in wining the day away (he doesn’t drink white) we took our time celebrating the fact that we’re now drinking in sync (yay!) and toasted appropriately: 4.0 Cellars for a glass of their red blend while listening to live music (Strawberry Wine just happened to be playing….s’cute) and then to Messina Hof to share a bottle of Pinot Noir on the patio. Cheers!

The elegant yet cozy Presidential Suite bedroom at Lincoln Street Inn in Fredericksburg. I can’t say enough good things about this lovely B&B!

Now on to The Lincoln Street Inn, home for the next couple of days.  This 1860’s home is just 1.5 blocks off Main Street and THE BEST and most convenient location I have ever stayed at in Fredericksburg I might add!  The main house has the Presidential Suite downstairs and three darling suites upstairs all with private bathrooms and distinct decor and personalities.  The newest addition to the property, Cardinal Cottage is a one bedroom, one bathroom luxury cottage with a dreamy kitchen, a king bed and a cozy outdoor fireplace and patio.  Absolutely darling! The owner Rebecca hosted us in the Presidential Suite which could not have been more charming or perfect.  The Suite includes a spacious living room, a large bedroom with a king bed and a huge bathroom with shower and jacuzzi tub.  I love the way she’s decorated the space: it’s got all the history Fredericksburg is known for but Rebecca has added modern art from her own collection along with great lighting, accessories and tasteful furnishings in interesting fabrics and textures. It truly feels “designed,” not kitschy, country or hokey.  I loved it!  Rebecca is great at providing suggestions for food, drinks and other fun while in Fredericksburg.  Every detail is tended to yet you won’t even know she’s there: hosting perfection.

Presidential Suite living room at Lincoln Street Inn. Love!

We grabbed dinner on the square at Sozial Haus for yummy pizza, more red wine and Sunday night football (Patriots/Chiefs) and baseball (Astros/Red Sox)….hey, I’m sporty when I need to be.  Pepperoni and jalapeño was our flavor of the day.  Just a hop, skip and a jump from Lincoln Street Inn, it was an easy walk there are back and a great way to wrap up a casual Sunday.

Cheers to good tastings, tours and more at William Chris Vineyards…a delightful spot rain or shine.

Monday was cold and wet!  After a delicious breakfast at Sunset Grill (don’t leave without ordering the French toast), a soggy drive around the area and a luxurious nap, we headed to William Chris Vineyards for an afternoon tasting.  The vineyard is located about 20 minutes outside Fredericksburg in Hye, Texas….an easy drive. William Chris is all about Texas-grown wine and their setting is special yet unpretentious; a great way to get educated about what’s in your glass. Casually yet thoughtfully guided through six wines while we enjoyed a cheese board and the cozy surroundings, I decided my favorite of the day was the Hunter blend.  (And of course I took home a bottle of Skeleton Key). The nasty weather meant no exploring during our visit but the grounds and views are fabulous on a clear day: a great reason for me to go back soon!  Inside there is plenty of inspired and unique art as well as a small menu of tasty snacks to enjoy with your wine. Reservations are required but you can call ahead to check availability if you want to try and catch them as a walk-in. You can also inquire about membership opportunities.

My exquisite pre-dinner cocktail at the V Supper Club bar.

Vaudeville is easily my favorite store and restaurant in Fredericksburg, so experiencing their V Supper Club which is only offered on Monday nights was a real treat.  Reservations are required as space fills quickly; this event has garnered quite the following among locals and word is spreading fast. It’s easy to see why.  The bar and dining room are perfection.  From color scheme to tables to lighting to ambience, it’s as sophisticated as it is warm and inviting. Dinner is a prix fixe menu prepared based on seasonal options and is as exquisitely beautiful as it is delicious with service beyond compare.  You can opt for wine pairings with each course or order cocktails, wine and beer a la carte off the menu. Even a torrential downpour outside didn’t dampen the mood of the evening. So lovely!

The Bluebird Suite, one of three upstairs rooms each with private bath at Lincoln Street Inn.

Tuesday morning it was time to head home, but Rebecca informed me the other guest rooms in the main house were unoccupied so I was able to sneak upstairs and snap some pictures of each darling suite.  The entire property can be rented accommodating 10 guests...perfect for a girls weekend or couple trip.  Lincoln Street Inn is the perfect home base whether you are in Fredericksburg to actively explore or just relax and see where the day takes you.

Stay: Lincoln Street Inn, 106 S Lincoln St, Fredericksburg, TX 78624, (866) 244-7897

Sip: William Chris Vineyards, 10352 W US Highway 290, Hye, TX 78635, (830) 998-7654

4.0 Cellars, 10354 E US Highway 290, Fredericksburg, TX 78624, (830) 997-7470

Messina Hof Hill Country, 9996 US-290 E, Fredericksburg, TX 78624, (830) 990-4653

Dine: V Supper Club at Vaudeville, 230 E Main St, Fredericksburg, TX 78624, (830) 992-3234

Sunset Grill, 902 S Adams St, Fredericksburg, TX 78624, (830) 997-5904

Sozial Haus, 107 S Llano St, Fredericksburg, TX 78624, (830) 307-3208

Liney Moon, Treaty Oak, and Sunset Tears

Sometimes you just need to get away, am I right? So when Caroline from The Liney Moon invited me to come stay the night at her darling Hill Country retreat, I picked a date, packed a bag and headed out.

Located in Dripping Springs, The Liney Moon is made up of a large main house called Stellar House, 13 rustic-modern-quirky cottages and the simple yet chic Moon Chapel which was designed after a Swiss chapel and definitely stands out in the wedding capital of Texas. The entire property was created with brides and grooms and their families in mind; this is a place where everyone can stay and enjoy the big day. It’s also perfect for girls weekends, corporate retreats and family reunions, or just me: looking for some peace and quiet and a little slice of doing nothing for a bit. Jackpot.

Stellar House is just that...stellar.  Room for 24, wide open spaces inside and out, fun décor and a fantastic pool.  Yeah, I could get used to this.

I stayed in Stellar House which sleeps up to 24 people and is filled with charming, funky touches. Caroline and her husband Stephen have created something really special and unique. Full sized cubby bunk beds, industrial chic light fixtures and the lyrics to Sweet Caroline are just a few of the fun little tidbits scattered throughout the house.  Grab unlimited Hot Tamales and fake moustaches from the -house candy machines and stay a while.  So fun!  There is ample room for everyone to spread out and relax inside, and outdoors the wide open spaces continue. An outdoor kitchen and bar, comfortable patio with extended entertainment lawn and way cool swimming pool make it the perfect retreat.

Quirky and cute touches abound, making your stay at the Liney Moon so good! so good! so good!

There is a saying at Liney Moon that captures all of it’s warmth and comfort while doing away with stuffiness and pretense: “Room service? Nope. The time of your life? You bet!” In other words make sure to pack your cooler. I hit the grocery store on my way in to grab all the necessities for an afternoon charcuterie tray (raise your hand if you think this should be a food group!) along with plenty of wine and champs. I spent the afternoon lounging, nibbling, sipping and living completely responsibility free. Sigh. And you know what? All that R&R made me hungry again. Time to think about dinner.

Dripping Springs is full of many treasures in the way of shops, restaurants and experiences. Treaty Oak Distilling is definitely one of those. Located just a few miles down the road from Liney Moon, you can take a tour of the facility and learn the process behind making their spirits which include Ghost Hill Texas Bourbon, Waterloo Antique Gin And Red Handed Rye Whiskey just to name a few out of the lineup. Or you can drop in to Ghost Hill, the on site restaurant, and enjoy said spirits in one of their craft cocktails along with some of their delicious food. That sounded like the perfect plan for me. I invited Mr. Smells Amazing (see blog post from July 14) to join me for dinner which started with the perfect mojito. Literally superb. Then we opted to try their delicious smoked brisket, sausage, ribs and turkey with a smattering of yummy side dishes: pickled veggies, potato salad, the most delicious macaroni and cheese and the pickles of my dreams. Not kidding y’all: I would drive back for the pickles alone. Treaty Oak is an awesome place to bring the kids too: plenty of room for them to roam and play and a delightful selection of shareable snacks. And their friendly staff is the cherry on top. Such a fun place to hang, eat and enjoy.

It was all phenomenal.  But I've been dreaming about the mac & cheese and pickles since I got back. Dang, y'all!

The road back to Liney was the perfect way to catch my favorite time of day. There are sunsets and then there are sunsets in the Texas Hill Country. God shows off in the most spectacular way. Maybe it was the vibrant pink and orange colors, maybe it was the mojito, maybe it was Mr. Smells Amazing...but this particular sunset brought me to tears. Y’all know by now a good little cry is something I just do sometimes but nothing like a wide open sky and riding shotgun in a truck with a cute boy after eating the best pickles ever to give you a little peace and perspective. And bring on some tears of joy and gratitude. These are the moments, am I right? Sigh.

Drivers Seat Style on the sunset drive, pre-cry.

My visit to Liney Moon was right in the middle of a streak of 100-degree Texas summer days so a moonlight swim in the pool was just what the doctor ordered. Then I snuggled up in one of those grown up cubby bunk beds I mentioned before and drifted off to dream. (Shout out Travis Tritt and 90’s country). I woke up the next day with the sun, bright-eyed and bushy-tailed and recharged for real life.

I woke up like this.  Swoon.

There are different levels of vacation and relaxation. Sometimes you fly far away for days and days to unplug. But sometimes the perfect getaway is right in your own back yard. My little jaunt to The Liney Moon is proof that sometimes a trip isn’t about quantity (I wasn’t even there for 24 hours) but quality (the time I did have was just for me, full of peace, love and pickles). I can’t wait to go back with my girls (both my daughters and my friends) and soak up more of this treasured spot.

The Liney Moon is located at 5401 W Fitzhugh Rd in Dripping Springs.  Give them a call at (512) 954-8534 to book a tour or make your reservations.  Check out Treaty Oak Distilling at 16604 Fitzhugh Rd, also in Dripping Springs.  Give them a shout at (512) 599-0335 for tour times and more information.

Bloody Hell, I Got Carded at HEB: Tales of the PRP Facial

When my master injection artist Kim Sheridan of Injectables By Kim suggested I was a good candidate for the Platelet Rich Plasma, or PRP Facial, I was intrigued.  Kim has been doing my Botox and Dysport injections for the past two years.  She is relatable, smart, patient and truly listens to what I want.  Heaven knows there is nothing worse than seeing a beauty industry professional who looks at you, pretends to be listening to what you're saying, then grabs the scissors or the laser or the needle and proceeds to do whatever the hell they think is best.  I have endured bad haircuts, burns and the dreaded "caveman brow" because of a few yahoos who thought they knew better than me.  Kim is trustworthy and I am always happy with my results, so when she suggested sucking the blood out of my arm, spinning it around a few times and injecting it back in my face, it didn't really scare me.  I know her and I trust her, therefore I could trust the process.

Let me start by saying this procedure is not for the faint of heart or for the faint of face.  I have a HIGH pain tolerance.  I can bear down, grit my teeth and get through it.  But parts of the PRP Facial tested me.  Not all of it, but parts.  It includes the word "facial" but don't for a minute think there is anything remotely relaxing or spa-like about it.  But if you can get through it, I think you will love the results.

It starts the day before when you need to hydrate, hydrate, hydrate.  I drank all the water so my veins would stand at attention and harvesting my blood would be easy.  On the day of, I arrived at Kim's studio with a clean face.  I laid down in a chair while a topical numbing cream was applied to my face and 60 ML's of blood were drawn from my right arm.  (The veins were in great form by the way; all that water worked!)

Once the blood is taken, it's put into a "spinner" (not the technical term) and goes round and round, causing separation and letting us grab the white blood cells which are known as "the healers."  It takes three times in the spinner to reach a level called "liquid gold."  The really good stuff.

Three times in the spinning machine and you get that liquid gold.  This is what makes the PRP so good.  Photo by Kim Sheridan.

I lay back and Kim cleans my numbed skin.  She then spreads the plasma onto my face with her hands and uses a microneedling pen to push it in deeper. Kind of feels like a mini floor sanding machine on my face.  Hurts but not terrible.  Kim tells me this process creates a minor trauma to my face so that later the white platelets or "healers" can come in and rejuvenate my skin.  Once she's finished with the pen, the channels on my face are open and she can push the plasma in with her hands.  This stimulates collagen growth, helps with scarring, and improves over all texture.

The skin pen is like a tiny little sander, helping the plasma to penetrate further into the skin improving texture, reducing scars and fine lines ad stimulating collagen production.

Now time for the next level: the injections.  This is the second part of the double whammy effect of putting the plasma ON my face and INTO my face, yielding ideal results.  She focuses the injections on my smile lines, the apples of my cheeks, part of the area under my eyes, some of my chin and my jaw line.  This part ain't no cake walk, people.  I winced and squealed my way through this.  I murdered a strawberry squishy toy because I squeezed it SO hard.  Ouch, ouch, ouch.  But I did it.  One of the sleep lines on my face disappeared almost immediately.  Totally worth it.

Unfortunately one strawberry squishy was badly injured in the making of this blog post.

Here's the catch: when you're done, you're not really done.  Kim advises I leave the plasma (which looks like dried blood) on my face as long as possible.  Overnight if I can.  So I have to walk into the world looking a little like Sissy Spacek in "Carrie."  Not what I had planned on but I threw on my shades and was back in my car in no time.  So much for stopping at All-Star Burger for lunch.  I was going to need to exercise private dining this afternoon.  

All total, I was in and out in about 90 minutes.  That night my face was a little splotchy but felt fine.  The next morning the site of the killer injection on my chin was marked by a small bruise.  Three days later the chin bruise was gone but there was a new bruise on the corner of my mouth.  Then a bruise on my cheek.  Makeup was helpful in covering it up, but I was relieved when everything had healed. I would advise clearing your schedule of any truly important events or appearances in the weeks immediately following PRP.  But healing goes fast: two weeks after the procedure I got carded buying wine at HEB in Marble Falls.  Hell yeah!

Obviously she knew I was over 21 but the cashier at HEB said she had to card anyone who might be 30 or younger.  Holy what?!?  In related news, she is my new best friend.  This is about 2 weeks after my first PRP Facial.

The PRP Facial is intense.  Yes it is BLOOD being smeared all over and injected into your face, but knowing it's your own blood makes it easier to bear and the science behind all of it is truly fascinating.  I'll get two more treatments but I am already really happy with the plumping and youthful effect of just one treatment.  The only thing I would change is the date of my procedure from early June to October 31st because handing out candy to trick-or-treaters on Halloween with dried blood all over my face would have been a pretty sweet costume.  Maybe this year I'll dress up as a 21-year-old college kid buying wine instead. (wink, wink).

Injectables By Kim is located in the Hill Country Galleria.  Find her at 12700 Hill Country Blvd., Suite 121, Studio 108 & 109, Bee Cave, TX  78738.  Call (512) 851-1092 for an appointment.

How Martina McBride Mapped Out My Life

So...what’s “your” song?  Not your song with someone else—like a couple’s song—but your very own song.  Your soundtrack?  The one that is just...totally you?

I picked “my” song a looooong time ago when I was just a very young, naive little pup: 23 to be exact.  I loved it then mainly for the chorus.  It’s “Happy Girl” by Martina McBride—heck yeah to the 90’s country!  I actually hadn’t thought about it in so long.  In fact I would say I have added a lot more "my songs" to the list over the years.  But this one came back into my life recently and it's for sure the OG.

A few months ago at church a group of us were talking about music and stuff and stuff and music and I asked what everyone’s personal song/soundtrack was.  Two in the group weren’t sure, one said “This Girl Is On Fire,” by Alicia Keys (excellent choice) and I said “Happy Girl,” by Ms. McBride.  I was smiling so big when I said it because it reminded me of a time when I was just so “new” and just so...well...happy.  (I can honestly say I’m happy today, but 23 happy is different than 44 happy, you know?) I had my first job reporting and anchoring the news, I had a cute little apartment, a cute little dog, a cute little car, a zillion cute little suits a la Ally McBeal (although in brighter colors) and life was good.  I was indeed a happy girl.

“Oh, watch me go

I’m a happy girl

Everybody knows

That the sweetest thing you’ll ever see

In the whole wide world

Is a happy girl”

I loved it so much.

It was so me.

After the convo at church I practically skipped away humming that part of the song and remembering why it was my favorite.  As I joyfully navigated the crowd to get my kids, I decided I was bringing it back.  TODAY!  I hopped in the car with the girls and headed to Sunday lunch. We talked about music and stuff and stuff and music and I couldn’t wait to tell them about “my” song.  I pulled it up on Spotify.  Soon, we would be a car full of “Happy Girls.”

And then the words started and I REALLY listened to them and they took on a WHOLE new meaning.  It was crazy.  It was eerie.  It was unbelievable.  It was...whoah.  For so long I had only really applied the chorus to my life.  The good.  The peppy.  The perfect.  Now ALL of the words hit home and I started crying. (Surprise!) Not super big tears, but enough that my girls were like “what???”  And I fell in love with that song more than ever.  How could it be SO perfect...even MORE perfect.. for me now?  Martina, we are soul sisters.  You have been in my head.  You wrote my life in a song before I had even lived all of it!  Behold:

“I used to live in a darkened room

Had a face of stone

And a heart of gloom.

Lost my hope, I was so far gone

Cryin’ all my tears

With the curtains drawn

I didn’t know until my soul broke free

I’ve got these angels watching over me”

This was exactly how I felt when I moved to Austin.  Big things had happened.  I didn’t have the confidence to get involved with the girls’ school; I barely had the confidence to go out and get the mail.  I wasn’t working yet and I literally would hide in my dark room with the curtains drawn for hours at a time while my littles were at school.  But my dark little cave of a room in Austin is where I hit my knees and found the faith.  Or rather it found me.  This is where God grabbed me by the scruff of the neck and refused to let me fall.  Piece by piece, day by day, He broke my soul free and goodness gracious, you would not believe the angels he placed ALL AROUND ME.  He still brings them to me every day...at work, at school, at H-E-B, at church...everywhere.

Okay Martina, keep singing.

“I used to hide in a party crowd

Bottled up inside

Feeling so left out

Standing in a corner wearing concrete shoes

With my frozen smile

And my lighted fuse

Now every time I start to feel like that

I roll my heart out like a welcome mat”

Uh. Muh. Guh.  Martina were you driving my brain??!?   I was ALWAYS getting ready for the next event: finding the right dress, the right shoes, the right makeup.  That’s all fun—it’s still fun—but I made it SO important.  TOO important. And I still never felt right.  All my hard work to “look” right would surely make me fit in.  But no.  I didn’t feel like I did.  And I was sad.  And I was angry because I felt like I was giving all this effort with no return.  But the effort was misguided and so poorly directed.  So again when God did the “neck scruff grabbing” I mentioned before, yanking me out of my own dumb way (this took years mind you—and He’s still doing it) my hurting heart started to mend and I opened it to others.  It’s THE thing that connects us: to admit you are sad or scared or barely making it or you don’t know what you’re doing.  Even if you only admit it to yourself at first, you will find everyone else feels those things too and it will set you free.  Quit acting like an emotional big shot.  Keep rolling that heart out like a welcome mat!  THAT is how you will live your best life; not because you are wearing designer everything with nary a hair out of place.  Honestly, my hair is never in place! And my favorite pajamas that I'm wearing as I write this post are not designer; they are from a casino gift shop in Oklahoma!  (Giant orange tee shirt.  Picture of a fox on it.  Said fox has long eyelashes and a beauty mark.  It also says "Foxy" in script across the top.  See why I had to have it? Yasss!)  This is who I am!  What's going on outside will never feel good enough if there is no joy inside, even if you're wearing some dope pj's like mine.

Go on, Martina, go on.

“Laugh when I feel like it

Cry when I feel like it

That’s just how my life is

That’s how it goes

Oh watch me go

I’m a happy girl

And I’ve come to know

That the world won’t change

Just ‘cause I complain

Let the axis twirl

I’m a happy girl”

I’ve told y’all before that I got into this rut of not letting myself cry.  Not letting myself think about the tough stuff. I just didn’t want to face it.  But when I did let myself feel those things, I found out they didn’t last forever.  Then when the funny and joyous stuff decided to join the party, I could (and can) welcome it whole heartedly without the sad stuff looming.  Just feel it as it comes and there will be room in your heart for all of it. There has to be.  If you try to block it out it’s going to find another way to break in and raise hell.  So just feel the feels because the world certainly keeps spinning.  Even if I don’t like what’s happening today, tomorrow the sun is coming up, the traffic is piling up, and life is moving on.  I choose to move with it.  I might not always be sure of every next step, but I am sure my Spotify is working and Martina is on the playlist.  And I’m sure if I ever meet her in person she will be completely open to the idea of us doing a spontaneous duet and being best friends.  Right?

What is “your” song?  I would love to know!  (Tell me about you favorite pj's while you're at it...)

It's A Date

So I have said for a loooong time now I would never date.  Ever.  Done.  Forever.  I could not even wrap my brain around thinking about putting myself “out there.”  What does that even mean?  I watched colleagues use dating apps and my blood ran cold.  I would see men at restaurants or out and about look my way or start to approach and I would immediately stiffen and avoid eye contact.  Friends and acquaintances told me they had someone they wanted me to meet and I dodged the introduction.  I’d been invited out and found a reason to say no, that I wasn’t ready.  I’d see people holding hands on the street and I couldn’t imagine doing the same. The thought of meeting someone.  Going somewhere with them. Talking.  Going more places with them.  Trusting them.  Kissing them.  All the things.  I just decided I couldn’t and wouldn’t do it.  Too scary.  And I didn’t know how.  And...too scary.

Anyone who asked me got the same answer.  “So are you seeing anyone?”

“Nope and I never will.” 

People told me I should just have fun, but I was standing strong in my decision: Dating and I were never ever ever getting back together.

Like ever.

Then I decided even if I didn’t want to date, or didn’t THINK I wanted to date, that was fine. I didn’t have to.  But I DID have to quit speaking such negative energy around it.  That inner voice soundtrack thing is strong.  I had worked so hard to be positive about my life before, during and now after my divorce, how could I be so negative about dating and expect it to ever go right...IF it ever even happened?  (Notice how I’m using the word “if”—the further on the “other side” of my divorce I got, the more I wondered...IF...MAYBE, POSSIBLY there MIGHT be a day I would date? Hmmmm.  Time brings healing and clarity, you know?)  Still I wasn’t totally sure...but I WAS sure I couldn’t act so cold, abrupt and “final” about it.  This much I did know: I have no idea where life will take me but if someday it did involve a relationship I needed the gateway to be lined with light and levity, not the darkness and negativity I had been planting in my own head which was starting to get to me.   What was I so afraid of?  It was time to have an open mind and an open heart and just let it be whatever it might be.  I have a strong intuition and I needed to trust it:  if and when I was ready to go out with someone, I would know.  Right?  Right.

So Lord help me.

But my three girls.  What about them?  How would I explain it?  I hadn’t shared any of my thoughts with them.  Would they be ready when I didn’t even know if I was ready myself?  They had started to say things like, “Mom that guy is checking you out.”  Or “Mom you’re single and ready to mingle.” Or (insert eye roll), “Mom, you’re fit and you’re lit.”  (Where did they get this stuff?)  They would say it sweetly and often with a little giggle here and there, but it’s like they knew there was this other part of life that I could begin to step into again...even before I knew it. 

One night recently Campbell told me about my teenage niece’s summer internship where there was a boy interning as well—my niece said he “smelled amazing.”  I told the girls, “Watch out for those boys who smell amazing.  They’ll get you every time.”  (Ladies, am I right?)

Brynn asked if I knew any boys who smelled amazing.  And I immediately smiled and said I may have come across one recently. (Which of course happened the minute I started to change my thinking. Hey there universe...I see you working).  I couldn’t believe the words came out of my mouth.  Yikes.  Then she asked if I wanted to go on a date with him.  Double yikes.  And I said “Well, what would y’all think about Mommy going on a date? Because I’ve been invited and it’s someone I think I want to go with.”  Yikes on fleek.  Who even was I in this moment?  Their answers to my question could not have been more pleasantly surprising...or more honest, true, comforting and supportive.

LJ dove right in.

“Mom, I’m fine with it as long as you’re happy.  But I mean really happy.  Not just pretending to be happy because I can tell.  Happy for real.”  

LJ is the coolest girl I know and she has a BS radar like no other.  And apparently a much better one than me since I had obviously thrown down some false happy in front of her and she caught it.  I love that answer.  And it is THE guideline I am using as I go forward.  Does this make me happy?  Really happy?  Because there is no time to pretend.  I don’t even want to spend one hour at dinner pretending to be happy.  Being happy is being real.  That’s the bottom line in life and certainly in a relationship: happy for real. 

Lila Jane's advice: happy for real.

Campbell chimed in next.

“I’m fine with it as long as you don’t date anyone gross.”

Um excuse me?

“You know, like no thugs.”

Solid answer, Campbell.  I know I would never date a gross thug, but if my 12-year-old daughter needs that on the record from me, no problem.  After all, gross thugs can slither in wearing a suit and tie, they can hide behind nice eyes and dimples or lovely, well thought out words....so it’s important for me to be on my toes.  No gross thugs.  Fist bump, C.

Campbell says no gross thugs.  I can get behind that.

Brynn was last.

“I’m fine with it as long as if he’s ever rude to us, you believe us and not him.” Dang girl.  We don’t call you The Godfather around her for nothing. You know what’s up. And you are absolutely right.  I’ve got your back forever.

Brynn's advice: believe us.

Their answers were so insightful and so sweet.  And so GOOD.  In that moment these three little ladies who I get to raise were raising me, giving me their feelings and their permission to go forward to a place that might lead to love, but also they were giving me a strong anchor in how to do it and what to keep close to my heart: True happiness,  no gross thugs, and be loyal to them in the process.  Perfect rules to live by from the mouths of my babes.  It’s moments like these that give me confirmation I’m doing at least something right.

Who knew these little nuggets would turn out to be so wise beyond their years? Swoon.

Since we talked there have been dates, and more specifically, dates with a “boy who smells amazing.”  That’s all I’ll say about it because I want my private life to stay private.  But the combination of giving myself permission to spend time with someone who captivates me and to walk into it with my girls’ love and blessings makes me feel like it’s not nearly as scary as I made it out to be.  It’s actually really good.  It might even turn out to be amazing.

What Floats My Boat

It started when I was cleaning out my closet.

There’s an Elle Lain dress I love and have only worn once but I couldn’t find the heart to get rid of it.  I have always imagined myself going on a boat and having a lovely picnic in this dress.  (Vivid imagine, I know).  I took an informal poll via Instagram.  Feelings from my followers were strong: keep the dress!  Make the boat picnic happen!  Believe in the possibilities!  I talked all about it on Instastories.  Next thing I knew, Margot from Lakeway Marina messaged me: “We would love to host you and your friends on a boat picnic! Wear your dress, bring your people and your picnic and we’ll provide the boat for the afternoon.”  In that moment, my belief in putting things out into the universe was proven true and Margot moved to the top of my superhero list.  Fun!

The dress that launched a thousand ships.  Okay, it was just one ship.  Okay, it was actually a pontoon.  But it was a really fun afternoon on the water and it never would have happened without this dress.

After talking with my group of mom friends about scheduling and dates—and rescheduling twice—we settled on the Saturday before Mother’s Day.  Perfect.  With 17 kids between us there were plenty of meets, games, practices and performances to work around.  Not easy.  But magically this particular Saturday worked out.  It was a date.  By the time our day arrived the temperatures were in the low 90s and the Boat Picnic Dress was too fancy and too hot.  We changed game plans and decided to wear all white figuring it would make for cute photos.  After all, it’s all about that ‘Gram.

Margot arranged for us to have a pontoon and while they were more than happy to let me drive, I admittedly wanted to enjoy some adult beverages so my dear friend’s hubby graciously agreed to be our captain for the day.  Parking at the marina was a cinch.  We carried our coolers down stairs, popped into the office and filled out some fast paperwork.  The staff was welcoming, friendly and organized.  After a quick check of the boat and a rundown of what to do, we hopped on board and were on our way out onto the lovely blue waters of Lake Travis.

We weren’t away from the dock for 30 seconds before champagne corks were popping, music was blaring and laughter was escalating.  We were moms on the loose, in the water, with no chance of a child needing a chicken nugget or help with a school project.  This was freedom.

Popping bottles on dat boat with Captain Andy behind the wheel.  He smiles a lot, we just happened to catch him concentrating really hard.  I recommend having a friend drive so you can drink all the bubbles. Safety first.

I set up our picnic: yummy turkey wraps, guac, hummus and veggie crudités.  The star of the show was one of my favorite luxuries in life: an amazing cheese board from Rosemary at Spread & Co., which was stunningly beautiful and delicious as always.  And we had plenty of champagne, sparkling rosé and white wine to go around.  We talked and laughed and drank and ate and told stories about the kids we were lovingly avoiding for the day. This was decompressing at it’s best! An amazing breeze coming off the water kept the heat at bay.  We made friends with a duck who swam alongside us for a long time. (Between you and me I think he was into the Post Malone on my play list. Or he wanted champagne. Perhaps both).  We pulled into Gnarly Gar for a break in the ladies room and a pink champagne toast.

I will never stop speaking of my love for a cheese board from Spread & Co.  Always beautiful, always delicious, always perfect.  

The afternoon turned to evening and as the sun went down we settled into the boat and headed back.   So pretty.  So calm.  So perfect.  One of the best Mother’s Day celebrations any of us has had to date. So much so we’ve decided it’s a new annual tradition.   See you on the lake!

Contact Lakeway Marina for hours, prices, and to make arrangements for your own boat picnic. Even if you don’t “know” boats they make it easy and fun!

Lakeway Marina is located at 103 A Lakeway Drive, Lakeway, TX 78734, (512) 261-7511

Gnarly Gar is on Lake Travis at 18200 Lakepoint Cove, Point Venture, TX 78645, (512) 267-1845

Spring Break: Pants Optional

Like most families with school-aged kids, my daughters and I were counting the seconds until Spring Break 2018.  We were headed to a favorite spot we hadn’t visited together in a while: the beaches along Highway 30A in Florida, staying in Watercolor with my parents and ready to embark on planned jaunts to all the darling little nearby towns including Seaside, Alys Beach and Rosemary Beach.  Mid-March meant it was more than a little chilly but we were excited and we didn’t care.  I packed a suitcase with a built in phone charger, my girls had their phones and iPads, and we caught an uber here and there; all wonderful modern conveniences.  But the best parts of spring break for me had more to do with being unplugged—and active, salty, free, silly and peaceful. 

Riding A Bike

My little biker babes.

Getting around the area is done primarily on two feet or two wheels.  Not the best news for a sweat-hater like myself but the house we rented had four bikes so I just decided to roll with it. (Get it?)  The last time I was there I only got on the bike a couple of times;  this time I was all in.

I forget how AWESOME it is to ride a freaking bike!  Those first tastes of childhood freedom came flooding back so vividly and it was like Christmas morning and a new puppy and a cherry Slurpee all at once.  There were many moments I had tiny tears of joy. And riding with my girls was the BEST!  We cruised the hood like a little estrogen-fueled gang, heading to the beach, heading to breakfast, or just circling the block.  My booty was hurting, but it hurt so good!

Fritos

I know you know what Fritos look like but I needed a picture to balance out this post and since I didn't take a pic actually eating Fritos in Florida (because why?) this is what I have to offer.  Tiny Hand wants in on the action.  For more on that, keep reading.

With reckless abandon I ate Fritos to my heart’s content.  Usually I avoid them (except in the fall with the occasional Frito Pie) because they make for hideous breath and greasy fingers.  But no one was getting within breath or finger range of me, so when my dad snagged a bag of Scoops at the grocery store I didn’t complain.  I packed them full of spinach artichoke dip and savored each salty bite. Crunch, smack, yum.

Swimsuits Are An Outfit

Me in Rosemary Beach with my almost daily uniform of a swimsuit topped with a giant sweatshirt, sans pants.  In the reflection you can see two of my girls who were wearing the same outfit as I was. You wanna know who wears the pants in this family? None of us. On Spring Break, anyway.

The beauty of a beach town is swimsuits count as proper attire nearly anywhere you go at almost any time of day.  I am not one to prance around in just my suit, but throw a cover up on top and I’m good to go. I didn't worry about accessorizing and gussying up; I just threw on my giant Seaside sweatshirt over my suit and headed out into the world daily.  If you think about it, there really is no other way to be in public basically with no pants on.  You feel like you’re sneaking something really awesome but actually no one cares because they’re all wearing no pants too as you collectively frolic around town in swimsuits and giant sweatshirts.  It’s an #ootd I will love forever more.

The Tiny Hand

Since I brought the Tiny Hand home, I can't quit using it on everyone.  Especially Pippa.  As you can see she's over it, and trying to bite the Tiny Hand that feeds her. How rude!

We were puttering around one night after dinner and popped into the Seaside bookstore.  Upstairs were a million needless things.  That’s where we found Tiny Hand.  My colleague Brittany has one and she uses it at the most random times sparking hilarity at the office.  I had never seen them for sale though.  I thought the shenanigans of the tiny hand were only for Brittany to instigate, but I love her and she lets me hold hers sometimes so I was good with that.  But now I had the chance to have my very own.  I got two of them, “for my girls,” (wink, wink) but I have yet to put this thing down.  Why is a plastic tiny hand so funny?  Get one and pet your dog with it, tap your kids on the back with it, or have a conversation with it perched on one of your fingers. Today at work I introduced myself and shook someone's hand with it and they burst out laughing and I also gave some high fives with it.  You’ll see what I’m talking about and when you do, you’ll be hooked too.  Welcome to  the Tiny Hand Nation: membership has no privileges but you will laugh your face off and potentially drive your kids crazy with it which is reason enough to invest the $1.50 to get one.

Water

Watercolor, Florida.  This is really how it looks, y'all. #nofilter

Our last night at the beach I posted something on my Instastories about feeling so happy to be back on 30A with the girls, realizing I had worried about returning to a place we had once come when my family looked different.  I was soothed by the enormity of the ocean and the strong unmistakable presence of God.

In my post I wrote “My favorite place in the world. Still. Even after everything that’s happened. I wasn’t sure I could come back. I thought it would be too different. And I wouldn’t fit anymore. But it’s still safe and it’s still beautiful. We will come here forever.”

A friend from college who I have so fortunately reconnected with saw my post and wrote this in reply:

“It is an interesting biological fact that all of us have in our veins the exact same percentage of salt in our blood that exists in the ocean, and therefore, we have salt in our blood, in our sweat, in our tears. We are tied to the ocean. And when we go back to the sea--whether it is to sail or to watch it--we are going back from whence we came." - John F. Kennedy

Deeeeep.  I felt so understood when I read that quote!  Thank you, Josh, for sending it.  I think that is just awesome.  I didn’t grow up near water and truthfully I am not super keen on getting in it (thanks for letting we watch Jaws, Dad) but I absolutely love being next to it, letting the pull of the waves lull me into a calm place that so often eludes me.  It is one of the few things in life that can truly switch the wild parts of my brain into the "off" position and turn "on" the open heart, open arms and open mind in me all at once.  I feel so small next to the ocean,  but so grateful and so overwhelmed by the good things in life: God, my girls, my family & friends, bicycles and Fritos. And tiny hands.  (Trust me, you gotta get one).